Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Checking in... and a prayer...

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Well, it's not Monday OR Wednesday, but I thought I should check in since I hadn't written a post in a while. It's been busy... that's how life is though... so it's been more than that. Traveling back to AR for meetings. Housing grandkids. Busy calendar. All of it - and none of it. Just not sure of my motivation to write, second guessing it... and busy at work too... and wondering if I am more of a facilitator to help other's social media come out online without a hitch, or if I'm supposed to be applying these nuggets of wisdom to my own writing. Who knows??

It's also been a time of seeking God on what direction in missions Mark and I are supposed to take. Other prayers appreciated!!

Father, I ask that You would pour out Your Holy Spirit on this house, on our marriage, and on our family. We desire to serve You in new, deeper ways. Be with us as we each seek after You. In Jesus Name...amen.

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Word Wednesday....errrrr THURSDAY... On Tithing, Generosity, and a prayer!



I hate it when I misplace days. Does that happen to you? I knew all day Tuesday, that it WAS indeed Tuesday, but somehow when I woke up Wednesday I thought it was Tuesday all over again! UGH. These stupid antihistamines... It's a wonder I can think at all!! I'm grateful that despite those days I'd love a do-over, God keeps us moving forward... or rather, with all the snow and ice around here... PLOWING forward! He's so gracious to give us all things in it's proper season. 

God is SO good to give. He is a GIVING God! I love to read about the giving that goes on over at The Generous City, hearing stories of people blessing others. Mark and I try to make it a priority to live generously, and it's always exciting to hear of new ways that others are being led by God to live that out in their lives. 

Last weekend at church (Crossroads Christian Church, Newburgh, IN), one of our pastors, Patrick Garcia, offered a moving prayer (well, it moved ME) as we were preparing to give our tithes and offerings. The phrase he said (and maybe others have said before) that resonated so clearly in my mind was this:


Goodness... is there not a more compelling reason to be generous than that?

I'm not one for prosperity preaching/teaching, or "stake it claim it" theology for us to receive much from God, but I believe that the Bible is FULL of examples of commanding us to GIVE. Consider a few of these...

Paul in Acts 20:33 states this,
“I have never coveted anyone’s silver or gold or fine clothes. You know that these hands of mine have worked to supply my own needs and even the needs of those who were with me. And I have been a constant example of how you can help those in need by working hard. You should remember the words of the Lord Jesus: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ (NLT)

and in Proverbs 11:24-25, Solomon shares,
One shares liberally and yet gains even more,
    while another hoards more than is right and still has need.
25 A giving person will receive much in return,
    and someone who gives water will also receive the water he needs.
Generosity places God’s gifts and blessings into circulation. The principle is simply stated: by giving we receive. This may seem counterintuitive, but it is how God’s economy works. As Jesus said, “Don’t hold back—give freely, and you’ll have plenty poured back into your lap—a good measure, pressed down, shaken together, brimming over. You’ll receive in the same measure you give” (Luke 6:38). (The Voice)

Giving can look very different to each person, both in our financial resources - how much God has GIVEN US to give, and in our convictions - how God is TELLING US to give to others. 

In our married life, we have lived lean, out of necessity. Early in our marriage I remember a few years that we were blessed by our church, as they helped us by paying for diapers and formula while Mark was staying at home with our daughter as he recovered from a work injury, and I went off to work every day. I don't ever forget the generosity of the body of Christ around us! IF we went out on a date, my dear sister or a close friend would babysit, and sometimes give us $5 to pay for the date!! It paid for the coupon special -  .25 cent hot dogs at the Der Weinerschnitzel around the corner from our house, and a few rounds of video games at the local arcade. That was it! But we learned to be content with our circumstances, and learned that others' generosity blessed us greatly. Those times we had nothing, we learned to depend on God for our every need, and He provided for us... and more! 

Another period of time in our marriage (more than one year) we lived paycheck to paycheck. If the kids got sick it was charged to a credit card. Vacations were limited to driving to visit family members who gladly helped pay for gas, and let us stay with them in their homes (which might not feel like much of a vacation... but still, I was - and still am - VERY grateful to have experienced a change of scenery). 

Living lean can be hard in our culture today. There's so much pressure to have all the games, bells, whistles - whether it's electronics, cars, clothes or homes. It takes great discipline to live lean, and set aside our wants for God's needs. And when we don't have money to assist others, we can still give a tithe offering to our church, and give time and talents to honor God in other ways... helping a woman who is broken down on the side of the road... buying a few burgers for the man out in the cold... or other random acts of kindness by opening doors and helping carry groceries, or shovel driveways, or offer a drink on a hot day. We can tithe the actions of our hands and feet, the words of our mouth! 

Perhaps we have gifts that can bless the body of Christ, and we can serve in the church or community as a volunteer (which, by the way, is a great way to build your resume during times of unemployment... keeping your professional skills in tact and showing that you have what it takes to be resourceful). 

I believe God allows some of us to go through seasons of RECEIVING, to make us better at GIVING. I don't think that the amount He gives us has much to do with it... it ALL belongs to Him, and we are all blessed by giving in generosity to honor His Name.

And then I'm sure you've heard this before...
If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of the world.
If you have money in the bank, your wallet, and some spare change you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy.
If you woke up this morning with more health than illness you are more blessed than the million people who will not survive this week.
If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the agony of imprisonment or torture, or the horrible pangs of starvation you are luckier than 500 million people alive and suffering.
If you can read this message you are more fortunate than 3 billion people in the world who cannot read it at all.

Perhaps as one of the "rich" of this world, I would remember Paul's words from 1 Timothy 6:17-19 (NLT)
Teach those who are rich in this world not to be proud and not to trust in their money, which is so unreliable. Their trust should be in God, who richly gives us all we need for our enjoyment.  Tell them to use their money to do good. They should be rich in good works and generous to those in need, always being ready to share with others.  By doing this they will be storing up their treasure as a good foundation for the future so that they may experience true life.

and in 2 Corinthians...
Yes, you will be enriched in every way so that you can always be generous. And when we take your gifts to those who need them, they will thank God. 
2 Corinthians 9:11

And finally...
Matthew 6:21
Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.

Which, I think, says it all... to keep our attitudes, our priorities, our activities, all pointing heavenward... from our hearts to His. 

(Emphasis in all scriptures is mine.) 

Father, I ask that You will make me generous, financially, in mercy, and forgiveness. Help me to see ways around me that I can be a blessing to others, with my seasons of much and my season's of need. I pray that You will show me creative ways to bless others, giving from my heart to please You alone, not man or woman, just You. I ask You God, that You will give freely through me, to bless Your work in my church, in my home, in my neighborhood, my community and my world around me. Give me a passion for those organizations that You have ordained to be Your hands and feet, to carry Your Good News to the Nations, and in my back yard. Give me Your eyes, and Your heart, to help those around me. Turn my world upside down, to bless You and give You glory. In Jesus' Name... amen. 

Monday, February 3, 2014

Middle-Aged Monday... and a prayer...

The view from my husband's office this morning... grey skies make me blue too...

Some days I wake up blue... do you? 

I had been putting off the unpleasant task of writing my father's obituary. His wife still hasn't told us that he passed away 4 months ago, and she chose to not have any services for him at the time of his cremation. We have no way to get in touch with her (besides driving the 10 hours and camping out on her doorstep). She's not going to be happy that we put a notice in the paper, but we felt it was due him, and our family heritage, to know the details of his life. It will appear later this week in the Cassville Democrat. 

Whether it was a spiritual battle, or an emotional one (or most likely both), I put it off for a full week and a half. I didn't even think of it during that time, but I'd set aside a deadline that it would be completed today, whether or not I met the paper's deadline for 3pm on Monday. 

Little did I know that their deadline is moved for different things... and I'd actually have until Tuesday to complete it... but I had my momentum going. I wanted it behind me.

What do YOU do when some unpleasant task is ahead of you? 

I'd rather scrub floors with a toothbrush than repeat this job!!

How does stress manifest itself in you?

I've had headaches, wanted to stay in bed (on Pinterest!) and ignore the world. I've also wanted potatoes, chocolate, mac and cheese... all those comfort foods that set my chemicals in the right direction to settle me in for a nice, long nap!! I didn't eat any of them... but BOY! I wanted them!!

I don't want to exercise, get dressed and go out, or complete that task. 

But complete it I did! and tonight I'm getting dressed up and letting my husband take me out!

Celebrate with me? This task is done, and I'll never have to do it again!! :) 

Lord, I know that YOU can comfort me during these times of stress. Forgive me for not turning to You, to lean harder on Your arms, and for allowing food cravings to get the best of me. I pray that you will calm our hearts and our minds when we face difficult scenarios, and let us learn to rely on the peace that comes only from You to carry us through unpleasant seasons. 

We love You, and want more of You in our lives...
In Jesus' Name...amen...